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Understanding Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Its Development and Applications in Counseling
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) stands out as a powerful approach in mental health treatment, especially for clients facing intense emotional challenges. Developed to address complex psychological issues, DBT combines practical skills with a compassionate framework. This post explores how DBT was created, what it involves, and why it has become a valuable tool in counseling. How Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Was Developed DBT was created in the late 1980s by psychologis

Karen Plant
Jul 194 min read


How to Set Boundaries With Adult Children Who Live With You
From a counselor's perspective, one of the most important shifts is recognizing that love and support do not require unlimited access to your resources, time, or emotional energy. Many parents and stepparents fall into the trap of believing that saying "no" means they are rejecting their adult child. Healthy boundaries communicate something different: I care about you, and I also have needs, limits, and expectations. When adult children or stepchildren live at home without co

Karen Plant
Jun 264 min read


Understanding Adjustment Disorder: Symptoms Treatment and Steps to Healing
Adjustment disorder is a common yet often misunderstood mental health condition. It occurs when a person struggles to cope with a significant life change or stressful event. This difficulty in adjusting can lead to emotional and behavioral symptoms that interfere with daily life. If you or someone you know is facing challenges after a major change, understanding adjustment disorder can be the first step toward healing. Adjustment disorder is not a sign of weakness or failure.

Karen Plant
Jun 144 min read


Navigating Tensions: How to Build a Relationship with a Resentful Adult Stepchild
How to handle a resentful adult child as a stepparent.

Karen Plant
Apr 53 min read


Understanding Jealousy and Trust in Relationships Insights from Dr John Gottman
How to manage jealousy and establish trust in a relationship.

Karen Plant
Jan 174 min read


The Power of Mindfulness: A Counselor's Perspective on Its Benefits for Mental Wellbeing
A perspective on mindfulness and its benefit for mental wellbeing.

Karen Plant
Dec 1, 20254 min read


The Lasting Scars: How Childhood and Teen Bullying Affects Adults
Bullying can have a lasting negative impact that lasts into adulthood. It's never too late to get help.
Kathryne Arnold
Jul 22, 20253 min read


What Is Nagging in a Relationship?
Nagging is often representative of something deeper in the communication pattern of a relationship.

Karen Plant
Jul 2, 20257 min read


Healthy Shame vs. Toxic Shame: Understanding the Difference for Emotional Well-being
What is the difference between healthy shame and toxic shame. How to Understand and recognize the difference for emotional well-being.

Karen Plant
Jun 14, 20253 min read


How Does Explosive Anger Affect My Relationship?
How does anger affect your relationship?

Karen Plant
Mar 14, 20255 min read


Is my Relationship Toxic?
John Gottman's perspective on toxic relationships.

Karen Plant
Mar 2, 20252 min read


Do Healthy Couples Fight?
"Normal" couples have conflict! It's how you handle the conflict that matters.

Karen Plant
Feb 2, 20254 min read


Top Methods and Treatments for Managing Anger
Eleven Best Counseling Methods and Treatments for Anger Management
Kathryne Arnold
Jan 23, 20254 min read


How Emotional Overwhelm Can Cause Avoidance in Relationships
How emotional overwhelm can lead to avoidance in relationships.

Karen Plant
Dec 6, 20244 min read
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