ADHD does not look the same in every adult. One client may interrupt, speed, overspend, and lose jobs after conflict. Another may look calm, organized, and high-functioning, yet feel constantly overwhelmed, ashamed, and exhausted from masking symptoms. Both may have ADHD. For counselors, this matters because adult ADHD is often missed when clinicians look only for the loud, restless, disruptive version. Adult men and women can share the same core symptoms, but social expectat